Head & Heart Coaching with Shiona - Courage2Change
Shiona HeadHead & Heart Coaching
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04 October 2026•6 min read

Understanding Your 'Hot Spots' and Why Willpower Never Works

"The neuroscience behind why old memories still trigger fight, flight, or freeze."

Core Takeaways
  • Why logic and intellectual reasoning fail during acute emotional hijacking.
  • How Event Havening® down-regulates the amygdala using gentle somatic delta waves.
  • Practical steps to interrupt the fight-or-flight cycle before it erupts.

Have you ever had an emotional reaction that felt totally disproportionate to the event itself, leaving you feeling frustrated with yourself afterwards?

I call these moments 'Hot Spots'. They happen when a current situation subconsciously matches an unresolved experience from your past. Your primitive brain doesn't know it is 2026; it believes you are under threat right now.

This is why telling yourself to 'just calm down' never works. You cannot think your way out of a nervous system reaction.

Through techniques like Event Havening®, we deliberately introduce soothing sensory delta waves that de-potentiate the receptors in the brain, freeing you from automated fight, flight, freeze, or fawn reactions.

Author & Practitioner

Shiona Head

PASEDA360® Practitioner • Event Havening® Specialist

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